Find your perfect pleasure match this V-Day

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about roses and chocolate - it’s about pleasure, connection, and maybe even a little adventure. Whether you're shopping solo or looking to spice things up with a partner, the world of sex toys is vast, exciting, and - let’s be honest - sometimes a little overwhelming. Let’s break it down so you can find your perfect match.

For the vibe enthusiasts: Clitorial stimulation FTW

If external pleasure is your jam, vibrators are your best friend. From bullet vibes (small, discreet, powerful) to air pulsation toys (clitoral suction magic), these are perfect for solo fun or spicing up partnered play.

For the penetration lovers: Dildos and G-spot pleasers

If internal stimulation is your thing, a dildo or G-spot vibrator is where it’s at. Want something realistic? Silicone dildos in various shapes and sizes have you covered. Looking for something next-level? Try a dual-stimulation "rabbit" vibrator or a curved G-spot toy that knows exactly how to hit the right spot.

For couples: Double the fun

Sex toys aren’t just for solo play! Bring them into the bedroom for a game-changer. Some wearable vibrators sync with your partner’s movements, while vibrating c*ck rings add extra pleasure for both partners. Want to take it up a notch? Remote-controlled toys let you tease and please from across the room… Or across the city.

For the anal-curious: Start small, explore more

If you’re new to anal play, start with something beginner-friendly like a small, tapered butt plug. Already an enthusiast? Vibrating plugs, prostate massagers, and anal beads can take things to the next level. Just remember: Lots of lube, go slow, and have fun.

For the tech-savvy: Smart toyos and app-controlled fun

Want a long-distance connection? App-controlled toys let you (or your partner) take control from anywhere. Some brands offer interactive, Bluetooth-controlled fun, making intimacy possible no matter the distance.

How to choose the right one?

Ask yourself: What kind of sensation do I enjoy? Do I want something external, internal, or both? Do I prefer something hands-on or hands-free? There’s no right or wrong - just what feels good for you.

So this Valentine’s Day, ditch the cliché gifts and go for something that really sparks joy. Whether it’s a solo date with your favorite vibe or a couple’s adventure into new territory, pleasure is the best kind of self-care.

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Danielle Simpson-Baker is a Marriage and Family Therapist in Florida and a Board Certified Sexologist with the American Board of Sexology. Danielle holds an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy and is currently working toward a dual certificate in Sex Therapy and Education. She also runs a sex-positive Instagram page (@thesexpottherapist) that has amassed more than 23,000 followers since its inception in 2018; with that following, Danielle started a virtual sexual wellness clinic called Sex(pot) Therapy, LLC. Danielle provides sex therapy, coaching, and consulting, as well as a host of sexual wellness products for every person’s needs!

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With thanks to our friends at Girls Get Off for letting us borrow their gorgeous image! Girls Get Off believes in helping women to feel confident, supported, and empowered about all things pleasure. They take their mission very seriously, and will only ever release a product that has been tested, approved, and raved about by real-life women.