Be your own fireworks

January doesn't have to be about reinvention or waiting for someone else to bring the excitement. It can be a moment to reconnect with yourself, notice what feels good, and move through dating with more intention and less pressure. This month invites you to focus on confidence, pleasure, and self-trust, whether that means dating on your own terms, exploring connection without expectation, or choosing to prioritise yourself for a while. When you stop outsourcing your spark to someone else, dating becomes lighter, clearer and more enjoyable. You are not waiting to be chosen. You already light up the sky!